I’m only doing it to make us happy

by Mandel Cola - March 2nd, 2007
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I seek happiness everywhere. We all do. But do we often pause and wonder if it exists, and if it does, what it is? Or are we, in fact, on board a futile quest for the promised shores of an elusive and non-existent place? 

The Neocrats may try to centre me a little from my hopeless left leaning, but let me pose this question: Is happiness more than a fantastical tale woven by the hypercapitalistic machinery to fuel the flame of our desire, and suck us in, day after day, deeper into its narrative?

Let me explain. This recent article from SciAm reports on news that has been proven time after time by research in the developed world, that we’re not very happy. And the more we persevere in our quest for what we think happiness to be, the more unhappy we become. Research shows that once we have at our disposal more than what we would all brand a meagre income that would only just satisfy the basic necessities of life, the more we get, the more unsatisfied we become.

In Australia, research showed that the unhappiest people are those that earn more than A$60,000. Clive Richardson from the Australia Institute branded our malady Deferred Happiness Syndrome. We defer everthing that’s important and fulfilling, such as personal and family time, artistic pursuit, community life and service to the community, in the pursuit of acquisition - so that one day we can retire and just maybe, have enough funds to do those things. Problem is, we often die or get sick in the process. Or we disown the people we want to spend time with, or lose the families we want to one day spend time with.

The prophets and sages have all alluded to these things, and to the meaningless of attachment to acquisition and wealth. Even Freud talked about the importance of balancing work and love. And we hear that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a dead ant than a rich man to enter the Kingdom of God. But now it’s hard science.

Friends, when shall we wake from our nightmare of consumption?

14 Responses to “I’m only doing it to make us happy”

  1. Lincoln says:

    Mandel, I like your question, and I agree with the spirit of your post that over-consumption does not produce happiness. But I want to complicate things a little bit by raising some economic questions: At what point in the development of an economy does consumption become its driving force (as I understand it to be in the West now)? Before that point, what drives the economy? And what is the relationship between the drivers of an economy and the percentage of people involved in it who don’t struggle to meet their daily needs?

    For answers to these questions, I turn to people who know things about this. I don’t. Please, friends, feel free to correct any poor asumptions that are built into my questions.

  2. nemoDreamer says:

    I like the concept of the “Deferred Happiness Syndrome” as a sadly governing force of our lives. I find myself doing the same thing, although I KNOW that its backwards logic doesn’t make any sense, as if that way of living were hard-wired into my behavior…
    And of course “hard-wired” is a cheap excuse. We all know that it takes effort to change ones perception of the flow of things, and we resort to saying “that’s so true” instead of taking the necessary steps to break the habit.

    What about consumption that actually helps with social interaction and artistic enjoyment? Like the iPod I so badly want (need?)…

  3. Mandel Cola says:

    We all need iPods. Of course we need next year’s model, and the iPhone Saleem brought to our attention some weeks ago. And the following year’s model, because the original one is just way too big - can’t believe i bought one, it only fits 20,000 songs.

    Anyhow, gotta go. I’ve heard ebay’s got the new O2 PDA. I need that one (honestly, I do).

  4. nemoDreamer says:

    I have all these material wishes, like an iPod, a killer-computer, specialized coding-software, but when the money to fulfill those needs is actually available, I go through this whole “now do I REALLY need this?” thing. Why can’t that happen when it’s still just a dream. I could then focus my energy on something else…
    Like an iPhone.
    aaaaaaaawwww carp!

  5. Mandel Cola says:

    The current Fast is a chance to separate ourselves a little from these ephemeral attachments. After 19 days of it, I find that you do re-evaluate what your needs are.

  6. Sanisha says:

    Did we not just establish that ipods with spiritually enlightening texts are good ?!

    Mandel about the persuit of happiness…i guess it’s about striving for a balance, even when it comes to our attitudes during the Fast.I used to get so annoyed with people,even the ones on medication who were exempt and as a result i could not even concentrate on reflecting and re-evaluating.

  7. Saleem says:

    A very good point, Sanisha. I don’t get annoyed at people on medication, but I do get a touch fundie about the Fast (except for the gum, cf last year) and consequently run around fuming. Which of course is entirely not the point.

  8. nemoDreamer says:

    ok, speaking of iPods: forget your iDock or anything like it. THIS is what you’ve been waiting for!!!
    http://www.thecoolhunter.net/lifestyle/THE-IPOD-CONCERTO-TABLE/

  9. Saleem says:

    I’m not sure if it’s extremely kitsch or quite cool. Maybe if it were black, it wouldn’t be so potentially kitsch.

  10. nemoDreamer says:

    it comes in black for the black iPod.
    come on… the white is amazing….

  11. Mandel Cola says:

    Before this posting becomes history, let me express gratitude for receiving the lowest post rating since ratings were introduced. I take pleasure in restoring the balance - an apt act for a post of this theme!

  12. Sanisha says:

    Mandel, you always make us laugh, in the moment, and I guess that what makes rating your posts and humour difficult, because after you’ve laughed at it first time, it’s not easy to tickle that funny bone again :)

    /which ties in with your post about the danger of resting our happiness on material things, we are never satisfied, always wanting more, bigger, better after the first ‘high’.

  13. Yonni says:

    Ah.

    The question; does money (nay consuming) bring happiness? It’s often asked… clever folks even seem to want to write scientific papers on the matter.

    Science-schmience

    Thing is, in my mind, scientific papers don’t take into account the intricate individual make-up of the participants. Maybe they do? After all clever people run these skams..

    What makes people tick - what makes them happy. I don’t even know what makes me happy; twinkies? work? birds? “kitsch” ipod junk?

    Until people figure out what it is that makes them happy (and not what they think their mates will think is neat), they will never know if they have attained that state of mind.

    Leave the politics and science out.

  14. nemoDreamer says:

    To tie in with our “does consumption make us happy”, here’s what the consumers are saying:
    Inspiration Nation, a good read about the flood of ‘cool’ and the role of creativity.
    Subtle is the new black.

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